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Kill Your Darling Aesthetic

Rigidly sticking to one style is just another way of staying safely small and stagnant.
Jamie Bell 9 Feb 2026
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Navigating the shift toward personal growth by outgrowing your established creative identity.

Brands are fake. People evolve.

You have built a neat little box for yourself. You know exactly what colors your followers like, what fonts get the most engagement, and what “vibe” you are supposed to project. But you are suffocating in there. Personal growth requires you to burn down the box. It is time to stop being a curator of your own life and start being a participant in it. If your current aesthetic doesn’t reflect who you are today, it is a lie.

Authenticity isn’t a destination; it is a moving target. What felt true to you six months ago might feel like a costume now. That is okay. In fact, it’s a sign that you are actually progressing. Expanding your horizons means being willing to alienate the people who only liked you for your old style. The real ones will stay. They are following the person, not the pattern. This transition is a crucial part of personal growth for any artist. It tests your courage and your commitment to your own truth.

When you stop performing for the algorithm, your work gains a new kind of weight. It becomes honest. People can sense when an artist is playing it safe and when they are taking a genuine risk. Risk is the oxygen of personal growth. Without it, your creativity will slowly wither away. You have to be willing to be misunderstood for a while. You have to be willing to look “off-brand.”

Think about the artists you truly admire. They didn’t stay in one lane. They constantly pushed the boundaries of what people expected from them. They embraced change even when it was inconvenient. That is the path of a true creator. Don’t let a digital profile dictate the limits of your soul. Delete the grid, change the palette, and start fresh. Your future self will thank you for the bravery you show today.

Kill Your Darling Aesthetic

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With activities rooted in our Winnipeg, Manitoba and Northwestern Ontario hubs, we’re exploring arts, culture, and recreation programming that brings our communities together. From creative workshops and local exhibitions to youth activities and cultural events, we support rural artists, strengthen community connection, and celebrate the creative spirit.

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Jamie Bell

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Jamie Bell is a Winnipeg-based interdisciplinary artist and strategist working at the intersection of media arts, community engagement, and public affairs. Among others, his work has been supported by the Canada Council for the Arts, the Manitoba Arts Council, and the OpenAI Researcher Access Program, with a focus on participatory media, strategic communications, and arts-based collaboration across northern and urban contexts.

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This platform, our Winnipeg, Manitoba hub and programs have been made possible with support from the Manitoba Arts Council Indigenous 360 Program. We gratefully acknowledge their funding and support in making the work we do possible.

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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

The Arts Incubator was seeded and piloted with strategic arts innovation funding from the Canada Council for the Arts Digital Greenhouse. We thank them for their investment, supporting northern arts capacity building and bringing the arts to life.

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NORTHWESTERN ONTARIO ARTS

This platform, our Northwestern Ontario hub and programs have been made possible with support from the Ontario Arts Council Multi and Inter-Arts Projects Program. We gratefully acknowledge their funding and support in making the work we do possible.

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