Celebrating the tiny victories that build into a massive joy in life.
We are all waiting for the big moments. The graduation, the promotion, the wedding, the big move. We think that once those things happen, we will finally be happy. But life is mostly made up of the ‘in-between’ moments. If you only allow yourself to feel good when something huge happens, you are going to spend 99% of your life feeling inadequate. The secret to staying sane is learning how to celebrate the micro-wins. The tiny victories that no one else sees.
Did you get out of bed on a day when you really didn’t want to? That is a win. Did you choose a piece of fruit instead of a bag of chips? Win. Did you finish a difficult task at work without complaining? Huge win. These things might seem small, but they are the building blocks of self-efficacy. In psychology, self-efficacy is the belief in your ability to succeed. You build it by proving to yourself, over and over again, that you can do hard things.
Write them down. Keep a ‘win log’ on your phone. When you are having a terrible day and you feel like you have accomplished nothing, look at that list. It is hard evidence that you are making progress. We have a ‘negativity bias’ that makes us notice our failures and ignore our successes. You have to actively fight that bias by shining a light on the good stuff. It is not toxic positivity; it is balanced reality.
Don’t wait for someone else to validate you. Most people are too busy with their own mess to notice your progress. You have to be your own hype man. Give yourself a metaphorical pat on the back for the small stuff. When you treat your small efforts as significant, you give yourself the fuel to keep going. It creates a positive momentum that eventually leads to those big moments you are waiting for.
Brighter days are not a destination; they are a collection of small, well-lived moments. You are moving forward, even on the days when it feels like you are just treading water. Every step counts. Every small choice matters. Stop looking at how far you have to go and start looking at how far you have already come. You are doing the damn thing. Keep it up.
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