The Art Of The Sincere Hype

We’ve all seen the 'fake hype' online—the generic comments and the hollow praise. But you know what hits different? Sincere hype. When someone takes the time to tell you exactly why they think you’re crushing it, it feels amazing. That is a form of kindness that we need so much more of. Being the person who genuinely cheers for others isn't just a vibe; it’s a mission. It’s about recognizing the effort people are putting in and making sure they know it’s being seen.

When you hype someone else up, you’re not taking anything away from your own success. Some people think that if they celebrate someone else, there will be less light for them. But that’s a scarcity mindset, and we don't do that here. We operate from abundance. There’s enough success, joy, and recognition for everyone. When you shine a light on someone else, you’re just making the whole room brighter. It makes you look more confident and more secure in your own lane.

This ties into the concept of 'positive reinforcement' in psychology. When you celebrate someone’s wins, you’re encouraging them to keep going. You’re becoming a part of their success story. And guess what? People remember who was in their corner when they were still grinding. Your kindness today creates the alliances of tomorrow. It’s about building a culture where we all rise together. That’s the kind of world I want to live in, and I know you do too.

So today, find someone who is putting in the work and hype them up. Be specific. Instead of just saying 'good job,' tell them you really admired how they handled that difficult conversation or how much work they clearly put into their project. Your words have the power to fuel someone’s fire for weeks. Use that power. Be the kindness that pushes someone over the finish line. You’re a leader, a motivator, and a total legend. Now go show them why.